The Mind of KLH

you ought to say it.  That’s what I believe, and what I’m doing.  I’ve been sitting here on the couch engaging in my Sunday morning ritual watching political talk shows.  As I watch I am reminded over and over again how little our elected officials care about the people who gave them their jobs.  It’s all about one-up-manship.  The Republicans can’t stand the fact the Obama and his Democratic crew handed them their ass in 2008.  So now the only concern for Republicans is to deny any and everything the Democrats want, and plotting on how they get reclaim their former glory.  The Democrats for their part, are too wimpy to stand up for the things they campaigned on, and promised us when they wanted our votes.

This leaves us on our own.  I’ve spoken about it before, we have effectively given our power away.  The greedy and selfish politicians who we put in office will not look after our interests unless we force them to do it by reclaiming what we have apathetically given away.  So how do we fix this mess we find ourselves in?  We  first have to believe that we can fix it.  This is the most important point.  Far too many people think that there is nothing they can do.  They believe that the politicians are going to do what they want no matter what, and the politicians count on that kind of hopelessness and apathy.

Secondly we have to get informed.  That doesn’t mean we have to become political experts, it simply means that we have to know what our own interests are, and what the politicians are doing about those interests.  So…the action plan is this… give some thought to what concerns you.  Don’t be corralled into what talk show hosts say, pay attention to your own personal interests.  Once you’ve determined that, go on the Internet and get the email and or phone number of your elected officials and contact them regularly, informing them of what your interests are.  Let them know that your vote cannot be taken for granted, and that if your interests are not fought for, you WILL vote for someone else. 

Another thing you can do is talk to your friends and family.  Encourage them to be vocal about their own interests and to resist being told what to think by radio and TV talking heads.  If we as a people can get to a place of belief in our own personal power, then we can change things in this country for good.  If we don’t, then we can look forward to more abuse by the Overlords…these government officials run amok.

If you have something to say…say it.  If you don’t have something to say…you’re part of the problem…I’m just saying.

Stay Fly and Fly High!
KLH

Your comments are welcome.

Well, he did it.  With the help of a lot of politicians who put their careers on the line, a comprehensive health-care reform bill was signed into law…but now what?  A few things will go into affect this year:  tax credits for employers, young folk get to stay on their parents’ plan until the age of 26, and you can’t get your insurance cancelled because you got sick (a particularly horrendous thing insurance companies do).  These are all good things.  The full benefits of the bill won’t be completely in affect for about four years…yikes!

I think the president deserves a lot of credit for persevering on this issue, but we shouldn’t forget about health-care now.  Costs will still be very very high for a lot of people, especially for those who really need insurance.  While people with pre-existing conditions won’t be able to be declined for new insurance the cost of new coverage will most likely still be quite high.  This has to change.  Rate changes will still come around way too often.  This has to change.  The influence of insurance companies over our elected officials will still be huge.  This too has got to change.

The new health-care bill is a great first step, but it’s only that a first step.  We have to remind our elected officials that more change is necessary.  If we persist we just might be able to reclaim the power that we as a people have surrendered to those we elected to serve us.  

 So now  the Republican Party is pissed off, not because they care so much about the people.  They are pissed off because Obama slipped in and did something for the American people while they were busy taking care of the super rich and super powerful.  Now they are acting like bratty children who didn’t get their way.  Some want to repeal the bill, others want to sue the federal government.  If the Republicans cared anything about health-care reform they would have done it when they were in power.  All this righteous indignation is a pitiful joke.  They should try to retain a couple of crumbs of their self respect and go sit down somewhere and zip it!

Obama’s health-care…it ain’t perfect, but it’s better than what we got.

Your comments are welcomed.

Stay Fly and Fly High!
KLH

Yep…I followed through.  It’s about 10:45 PM and I wanted to go to bed…I need to go to bed, but something in me pushed, and I am responding.  For the last couple of months I have been developing the habit of writing down a couple of things that I want to accomplish for the day.  Preferably things that will move me closer to the accomplishment of important goals.  I have found that it’s a really useful habit.  One of the three things I had on my list today was…to write a post on this blog….I am here.

At first I was  content to be happy with my first goal for the day especially since I spent quite a few hours on it.  Then I felt the push and I decided to forge ahead and do the second thing, which was to set up my DJ rig to practice…DONE!  Having checked off two things I felt really good, and rationalized that two is better than none…and that my “list” is just a reminder, and not a requirement.  Then I felt that damn push…I knew that for me to get to where I want to be, I have to do more and different things than I’ve done in the past.  It became very clear to me that it is very important to do what I say.

My word is important…especially to myself…especially to my spirit.  So here I am writing…because I said I would.  I have to tell you I feel proud, and if you set goals and then do what you say, you too will feel proud.  Proud people jump over hurdles, and dissolve limitations.  When you do what you say, you take yourself more seriously the same way you would when another person keeps their word.  When you take yourself more seriously, you feel empowered.  With this growing power, what is possible for you becomes bigger, with every little goal you check off your list.

So, I did what I said, and I feel good…really good…I guess there’s something to be said for follow through.  Goodnight!

Stay Fly and Fly High!
KLH

Comments Always Welcome.

Well…in two words I DO!!!  I recently talked to a really good friend of mine whose husband is in the hospital and had to have a CAT scan and other tests.  Even though they have health insurance they had to contemplate whether or not they:   1.  could afford the costs (because they have an enormous deductible and:  2.  could afford the risk of being dropped from their insurance, since they’ve been dropped twice in the past because they had the GALL to use their insurance for a previous illness.

I was very upset by this story because I too have health insurance that for the most part ain’t worth a damn.  First of all I’m self employed so I had to buy my insurance personally.  When I bought it I was healthy and had never been admitted into the hospital.  A little bit later I found out I had high blood pressure.  My health insurance company promptly raised my premium, which they have continued to do over the years.  About two years ago I found out I have diabetes, and again without skipping a beat my insurance company raised my premium again.  As I started becoming a little more educated about health insurance I realized I had no coverage for any kind out outpatient tests like X-rays, CAT scans, or blood work.  So, I called to see if I could purchase this additional coverage.  My insurance company did what insurance companies do and said NO!!!  I did this so easily becaue they know I can’t go anywhere else, with my pre-conditions.

If I get sick I wouldn’t be able to get any tests, at least none that I can afford.  If I get admitted into the hospital, I too like my friends have a large deductible.  Basically I cannot afford to get sick.  So now I watch the madness on TV regarding healthcare reform and it’s disgusting.  The Democrats don’t have any guts and the Republicans don’t have any hearts.  The truth of the matter is that most of our elected officials don’t give a damn about you or me.  They care about their own power and influence.  It got that way because we let it get that way.

There may be a solution, but it won’t be easy or fast.  We have to take the power back.  We have to remind them that they all work for us.  We must demand that laws be passed that limit the amount of money insurance companies can charge to keep us alive!!!!! It’s hard for me to imagine more selfish, greedy, and immoral people than the creatures that run health insurance companies.  The only way we can have insurance we need for life itself, is to force our elected officials to look out for our interests.  Even those who have insurance with their employers are at risk because insurance companies are raising the premiums every few months.  Soon even employers who want to provide coverage won’t be able to afford it.

So make your voice heard, and if your elected officials don’t give you what you want…VOTE THEM OUT OF OFFICE!  If the next ones don’t do the right thing,  get rid of them too.  Eventually we can take this country back, and have a true democracy.  Who cares about healthcare…I do…what about you?

Stay Fly and Fly High!
KLH

Here I go again…complaining!  But if they didn’t give me anything to work with…. (I’m just saying).  I just watched the guys on American Idol…I recorded it, and the only good thing about that was I was able to fact forward through the commercials.  Anyhow…It struck me once again that this show has shot it’s load. (is that crass??)  There was a time when American Idol was something special, it really was about finding the “best singer” in America, think:  Kelly, Ruben, Fantasia, Carrie.  Now think Taylor Hicks, or David Cook…WHAT???  Now it’s about…well, I’m not sure what’s it’s about, but I’m sure their interest is not in finding outstanding talent.

The notion that after auditioning hundreds of thousands of singers that these 24  are the best of the lot is insulting.  Simon is right when he says he can go into any bar or hotel lounge and hear similar performances.  The problem is that he and his colleagues chose these people to be on the show.  These singers get up on stage and do the best they can, then they get blasted as though they did something wrong.  Most of these kids where mediocre when they auditioned.  It is totally unfair to think that somehow they are going to morph into great talents when they hit the big stage in Hollywood.

The bigger problem I have with this mess called American Idol is that it holds up average singers as the gold standard of talent.  Consequently when young kids see this they feel like that is what you strive for.  It’s no wonder that truly great singers are becoming so much more rare.  If the average kid can sing as good as the people on stage, then the people on stage ain’t good enough.

On second thought…I think I do know what American Idol is all about.  It’s about creating an Idol.  A false image they can promote as something that it really isn’t…real talent.  American Idol is about making money, but don’t get me wrong making money is good.  Just don’t lie to me and tell me you’re looking for the best singer in America…we all know that isn’t true.

Stay Fly and Fly High!
KLH

I’m mad at our elected officials.  I’m mad because NONE OF THEM ARE WORTH ANYTHING AT ALL!!!!!!!  (Sometimes a primal scream is just what the doctor ordered.)  We elected Barack Obama and a whole lot of Democrats to bring change to America.  Instead what we got is the same damn thing.  I suppose I shouldn’t be surprised, but I am.  I thought this time it would be different, and “Change” really would come, but nope…no such luck.

I really was excited by Obama, now I just feel like I got suckered.  Obama so far is just like the rest of them…he makes these grandiose promise when he’s running for office and once he’s in he doesn’t do anything he promised he would.  Unemployment is higher than he said it would be.  Health-care reform with a PUBLIC OPTION is on life support (pardon the pun).  Guantanamo Bay is still open.  Congressional negotiations were supposed to be on CSPAN.  There was supposed to be unprecedented openness and bi-partisanship…that’s a no go on both of those.  There was going to be a whole host (one of Obama’s favorite words) of green energy jobs from the Stimulus Bill…but those are “still on the way”.

The Republicans are just as bad.  Their only mission is to see to it that nothing at all gets done while Obama is president.  Then they hope to regain power.  Just say no, that is their governing mindset.  In the meantime people are suffering from the arrogance and ignorance of the people we elected to make possible a good and productive life for us.  The truth of the matter is harsh, and it’s this…Our government officials don’t care about us.  How do I know that?  Simply look at what’s getting done, and what isn’t.  All they care about are power and the perks and privileges of that power.

So what’s the solution?  I think that we the American people should start a movement to vote out of office every single incumbent in the country.  Let’s send a message that they work for us.  From our State officials all the way up to the president, they are public servants, and as such they should SERVE US.  Let’s start with a clean slate, and require that these people serve our needs.  Let’s demand common sense solutions to the challenges that face us.  Let’s speak up and become the democracy we were supposed to be.  What we have now is no democracy, it’s no ‘rule of the people’.  What we have now is a joke…and a bad one at that.

I welcome your comments.

Stay Fly and Fly High!
KLH

If you want to succeed you cannot cheat. By that I mean you cannot take short cuts. Even as I’m writing this I am aware of people who have done just that…they have cheated and they have taken short cuts. Let me put it to you this way…success has a price. That price is determined by what it is that you want. If you want to be a doctor, the price is a gazillion years in school, and two gazillion dollars in tuition, and then you get to be a doctor. If you want to be a nurse, a computer programmer, or a machine operator, or a rodeo clown, you have to pay a certain price. That price may be a financial cost and or a certain amount of work. But there is indeed a price, and it must be paid upfront and in full.

Even cheats must pay a price. They bribe someone, they risk their life and or liberty to steal something, or they sell their soul, but believe me they pay a price. Success offers no discounts. You can’t do some of the work, and then expect to succeed. You must do all the work. You must work UNTIL you get to the promise land, and if you don’t, the universe knows the difference. You can’t be content with simply trying, or even trying your best. If you’re trying…you’re lying. Trying means you gave up…and giving up will attract more of the same from the universe. Success will give up on you.

Instead of trying use this formula: Be, Do, Have. Be-what you want to be. See yourself in the position you want to be in. Conduct yourself the way a person in that position would. Visualize that life and start living it right now. Second is Do-Do what that person would do. Wanna be an actor? Then ACT!!! Get into local community plays, get into an acting class, go to an audition, perfect your craft. If you will BE and DO like and actor, then in time you will HAVE the life of an actor. You can even say that BE and DO are like action and conviction. If you have enough of both these ingredients you WILL SUCCEED, and if you don’t the universe knows the difference. It’s really up to you.

Stay Fly and Fly High!
KLH

In this day and age with the recession raging our government has to be very cautious with spending tax payer money.  Hard choices have to be made.  There is a finite amount of revenue available, so money cannot be wasted.  At least that’s how it should be.  For some misguided reason our local and state governments see fit to give taxpayer money to people who won’t go to work.  Why, you may ask?  Because they had a baby, or two, or three, or…you get the idea.  A lot of women have decided to make welfare a career choice.

Now I know that a lot of “welfare moms” and wimpy liberals will say “OOOOOOhh you don’t understand.  These women are finding themselves on hard times, and we can’t let these babies starve, and yada yada”.  To that I would reply that a lot of people these days are finding themselves on hard times, me included.  The welfare department doesn’t give me any money, nor should they. 

There are families have that 3rd and 4thgeneration welfare recipients which is an outrage.  Clearly a lot of these “women” and often times girls have made a conscious choice to use baby making as a way to pay the bills.  No….I haven’t forgotten about the “men”.  These so called men are complicit in this rip off.  Any man worth a damn, would never have children he couldn’t afford to support.  People…in this day and age we just can’t afford to pay for somebody else’s children. Welfare needs extreme reform.  But, how do we do it?  I have a couple of suggestions.

First, U.S. citizens ONLY , NOT IMMIGRANTS…can receive welfare once per lifetime, and just for 9 months.  Men who father children and don’t pay for the support of those children, will be placed into a mandatory work program.  They will work in a job that benefits the neighborhoods they live in, street cleaning, graffiti removal, landscaping public property, you get the picture.  Half of the money they earn will go to repaying the money us citizens had to pay to take care of their babies.  Next, mothers and fathers who receive welfare money will go through a mandatory training class where they will learn how to teach workshops to educate young people how to avoid pregnancies they cannot afford.  Mothers will teach young girls that because a guy says “you have a nice ass” doesn’t mean he’ll make a suitable parent.  Fathers will teach young boys that it is weak, ignorant, and unmanly to have sex when you can’t shoulder all the possible consequences of having sex.  If you get pregnant again after having already received welfare…all I can say is you better have a good job.

We have gotten to a place in our society where our standards have gotten pitifully low.  Young men and women should expect so much more for themselves.  Welfare should be an extreme choice for an utterly desparate situation.  If you can work you should be required to by law, if you have children.  Beyond that, I simply don’t want to pay for anyone elses kids.  Nobody asked me if it was OK for them to have unprotected sex…and if I would mind paying for their children.  (They probably know what the answer would be.)

We need a new day…a new way of looking at things.  Welfare as a career choice is disrespectful…it’s disrespectful to the taxpayers, and it’s disrespectful to one’s self.  I know that some people will still say I don’t understand.  They will say that birth control isn’t 100% effective…but those same people won’t admit the obvious, that abstinence is always 100% effective.  Fact….sometimes when you have sex the woman gets pregnant.  To the women I say before you get all hot and bothered, ask yourself “If I get pregnant, can I afford to pay for this baby on my own?’ Truth is, that might be your reality.  To the men I say if you don’t have a job, or if you have any other loser traits… sex is not for you.  Whatever the case may be I don’t wanna buy junior diapers.

Stay Fly and Fly High!
KLH

Well…I was watching Oprah the other day interview Jay Leno, and she asked him a couple of times if he felt sorry for Conan O’Brien.  I’m sure she asked what a lot of people would have asked given the chance.  As I was watching Jay who seemed a bit uncomfortable, it hit me….ARE YOU FREAKIN’ KIDDING????

Conan got severance payout of somewhere in the area of $40 million dollars.  If he lives another 40 years, and never worked another day in his life, that’s a million a year.  I don’t feel sorry for Conan at all.  I think even the notion that anyone should feel sorry for him is absurd.  Conan is super rich, and he’ll easily get another gig that will make him even richer….how sad.

Now to be clear, I’m not mad at Conan.  To me the fact that he makes that money means that the people who pay him believe he’s worth it…and that’s all good.  But I think that we the regular folk, get caught up in this altered reality.  A mindset that is removed from what really matters.  So many people are taking sides…which one of these very rich men got the short end of the stick, is a ridiculous waste of mental energy. 

If we must feel sorry for someone…I have some suggestions:  How about the one hundred fifty thousand and counting people who have died in Haiti?  How about the thousands of children who will be orphans when the dust settles in Haiti?  How about the hundreds of thousands of people in this country who didn’t get a severance package when they were told there is no more work?  How about that man that has to make the long drive home to tell his wife and kids that they’re going to have to move into Grandma’s house because ours was foreclosed on?  How about the thousands of people who die every year because their heartless insurance companies won’t pay for that “experimental procedure” that would have saved their lives.

Now, don’t get me wrong perhaps Conan did get the short end of the stick….perhaps…but I know for a fact that most people would love to have that stick.  I wish the best for Conan, but I’m more concerned with regular folk facing REAL problems.  If we as a people collectively focus on helping each other and even more importantly helping ourselves, we’ll all benefit in a very big way.  Conan can take care of himself.

Stay Fly and Fly High!
KLH

Goodness knows this is a very controversial issue….but controversy has never prevented me from diving in, so here goes.  I believe that personal liberty is a very important right that we as Americans have.  I don’t want anybody telling me what I can and can’t do.  However, I know that there are limitations on my liberty.  When what I want to do infringes on someone else’s liberty, I can’t do it.

Now I know that I can’t have a baby.  I can never know what a woman goes through when she gets pregnant.  But just a surely a woman can never know what a fetus feels.  A woman can never know what it’s like to be the man that wanted to be a father to the fetus / baby that was aborted.  Yes…. I am against abortion.  But I am not a fundamentalist freak who believes in extreme measures being perpetrated against women who have had abortions.  I’m writing now because I was watching Court TV airing the trial of Scott Roeder who ADMITS that he shot and killed Dr. Tiller, who was an abortion provider.

The shooter/killer is claiming that he was justified because he was acting in the defense of unborn babies.  This guy is nuts, he’s a hypocrite, and it’s insane that tax payer money is being spent putting on a trial for this killer.  People like this make a mockery of the whole issue.  My thing is this…there is a ton of evidence to support the claim that life begins if not at conception, then VERY shortly thereafter.

I know a lot of women will want to scream at me and say “a woman has a right to do what she wants with her body”, and I would agree.  But these women fail to acknowledge the body that is within them.  I think that a much more appropriate thing for her to exercise her rights over is whether or not to have sex.  Or, whether or not to use birth control.  A woman doesn’t HAVE TO GET PREGNANT!!!!!  Additionally a woman doesn’t HAVE TO HAVE SEX!!!!  How about self control, preparation, forethought, and descretion? 

Here’s another thought (I have a lot of them) if it’s ONLY a woman’s choice as to whether or not she has a baby, then why should a man have to pay child support?  If a woman can decide indepently to abort a pregnancy, then should she be “woman enough” to decide to pay for raising that child?  To exclude a man’s feelings and rights during pregnancy and then force obligations on him after birth is dead wrong.  Now….to be clear I think a man should pay for the upbringing of his children, but I also think to exclude him as a dis-interested and unimportant bystander when the issue of abortion comes up is grossly unfair. 

Abortion rights?  I think abortion is wrong, but I’m not willing to put women in prison for it.  I think it would be more appropriate to overturn Roe v. Wade and make it illegal.  I actually believe women are smart enough to avoid unwanted pregnancies.  It may be a little inconvenient but I know plenty of women who have succeeded.  Birth control works most of the time, and if you add a condom into the mix along with the pill, it’s actually pretty damn hard to have a baby if you don’t want to have one. 

So to all you beautiful, sexy, capable, intelligent women out there if you even MIGHT have sex, just be prepared, it really does work.  To the men, don’t be idiots…USE A RUBBER.  Have a nice day!

Stay Fly and Fly High!
KLH

I welcome your comments.